So in regards to soft nexting a girl... does this only apply to women you're sleeping with or just any girl in general?

I've been essentially hard nexting any girl I'm not sleeping with if I'm disrespected. My reasoning is if I'm not getting anything from them they don't deserve any attention. This has streamilined my relationships with girls I click quickly with but I feel like I'm not as efficient as I could be or I need to work on game more with the ones I haven't built up enough attraction with.

So is soft nexting a tool you use only for women you're sleeping with or does it also work with women you're building attraction with? And if you can use it for attraction, how do you tolerate disrespect from a woman you're not even getting physical with?