Okay so I have a girl I mess around with sometimes, I’m not really sure what we are. Most of the time I ask her to come to my place she declines, she almost always wants to “hang” at her place. So, I stop asking her to come to my place or hang out at all. Then she invited me a couple days ago to her place and I went, but wouldn’t let me smash. I think it was her period. I haven’t hit her up since then as I haven’t changed my mindset of not asking her to hang out first, but she texts me today,

“Wyd”

“Chillin wbu”

“Nothing much was gonna see if u wanted to come over “

“Yeah lmk when”

A couple hours later

“Tomorrow”

“Okay”

What was the point of that? It seems like she a has a habit of asking me to come over then flake. She claims she doesn’t invite me over just to have sex, and that we only have it because she likes me. Obviously nonsense, and I could care less if she was actually into me, I just want to know why she feels the need to flake and act distant so often if we are just friends with benefits?