Lead Source continued(VIP TABLES at a nightclub)(FIELD REPORT+PULLING with my Canadian Wing Girl)
Hey guys, we've arrived at the four essays(VIP areas, Self-Consciousness P1, Self Consciousness P2, and Limiting beliefs) which will be the hardest to understand. The reason being that you can only learn about these topics through experience and not from reading theories, watching videos or buying digital products. Only when you have a lot of real-life experience, will you start seeing things differently.
A few years from now you guys will say, "Damn this is what our teacher meant, all along, I finally see it."
Continuing with the discussions of pattern, patterns that again no coach will ever teach you, but that you have to infer on your own. For instance, another pattern going on is that you assume that nightclubs, bars have your best interest at heart when this couldn't be further from the truth. Their interest is clear to appeal to the widest audience and to try to make money off them. Whenever or not you succeed in getting laid is irrelevant to them.
Most of these nightclubs have the goal of getting you in paying your cover and getting you to buy drinks and even buying tables. The girls are simply one more 'attraction' that will get more guys to come. That is why they keep doing "ladies nights." Since they want girls in the club so that more guys will come and pay them.
The nightclubs are usually divided into "the common area" and the "VIP area." The common area has the mass of the people in it. Most of the people in the common area are guys, I would say 80% competing for 20% or even fewer girls. I've been to nightclubs where its 8 guys for every 2 girls. Of course, it is going to be hard to game! Of course, it is going to be harder to pull under those conditions.
The more ACCESS you have the less game you need. When I tell most guys stories like this they tell me, "Well that doesn't' apply to me, I could never get in the VIP area." I say BS. You can do it too. You only need the right mentorships and guidance.
Infield Breakdown(Pulling with my Canadian Wing Girl)
This set happened a few months ago. I was staying at the "Odyssey Hotel" in South Beach. I was chilling at the Lounge and run into these two Canadian girls. Both were cute, one look Eastern European and the other looked Mediterranean European, I'll call the Mediterranean one Sadie since she was the one that I interacted with the most. I approached them and simply started talking to them. I didn't use an opener nor an intro I just talked. Similar to my set with the British girl from a few Using my cold approach skills to generate a lead source. I figured out one of them had a promoter boyfriend(in Canada) and the other was single but was seeing a famous musician on and off. Given these circumstances, most PUA guys would have quit and gone approached another set. However, I thought I could determine the girl's PDE(Primary Driver Emotion.) I kept talking to me and asked them why they were here in South Beach. The girls told me that they came here to get surgery(breast implants) and were going to go with a guy they just met. However, I said I can help you guys out! I have taken my ex-girlfriend(which I did) to do this exact produced I know all the in's and outs. Sadie(I'll call her like that) says that'll great. They were super into me helping them out. Back in the day, I would have thought, "these people are trying to use me." Nowadays I see things in terms of I'm adding value to these people who need it. We kept talking for a bit and then we parted ways.
On the day of the surgery, I talked to them and we got ready. Bear in mind there was a previous surgery day for the doctor to check on her. The Clinic was in downtown Miami so I called an Uber and we split the fare. We had her check-in with the Doctor and the doctor gave us the "Ok." This time was the definitive surgery day. I took Sadie and left her with the Doctor. Meanwhile, the doctor told me to go get her some meds she needs. I went to the Walgreens and got her the meds with the money she had given me. Afterward, I picked her up from the Clinic and Uber her home and got her to rest in her bed. I know a lot of you might be thinking, "Dude, why are you doing this for this girl aren't you the 'nice guy'" Absolutely NO! What I'm doing is making female friends and having a strong female network that can help me accomplish my goals. The keyword is RESOURCEFULNESS. Unfortunately, in this community there are a lot of weirdos and asocial guys who have not 'baseline social intelligence' therefore, they see everything in terms of my win your lose or vice versa. When in fact its all about making connections with people and game is simply the 'cherry on top.'
After that experience, they were thankful to me and they started sharing a lot of information. For instance, this Sadie told me the musicians she was dating. She also told me that most of the time at the table area there's tons of girls and only a few guys. Therefore, she thought it was super easy for guys to have options. Again she only sees things from the female perspective but you see why seeing it from it is very important. I quickly realized that some of the guys in the 'VIP area' did not have that much game. They had access and have enough social intelligence to NOT fuck it up. Meanwhile, all the PUA's and their students are putting you on a 'Ferris wheel' where you buy a product and after product hoping to emulate these guys when these guys are not that different from you and I(I'm continuing that 'Chad' discussion). However, what these guys have going on is that they can have more ACCESS and have enough social intelligence to not mess things up.
After a while, Sadie, her friend and I went to eat delicious ceviche. We all become good friends. The more I hang out with her and her friend the easier it was to 'become calibrated.' You are seeing things from the 'inside looking out' and not the other way around. Usually, most of the 'Cold approach' will have you meet for 5m and then the girl will shoot you down. Therefore, you NEVER get a chance to become calibrated. Meanwhile, having 'on the spot' female friends can help you. That's why I don't like using the term 'social circle' since it implies that its permeant or needs to last for a long time you need to build it for months. How I call it is 'leverage game' where I can leverage what I have to befriend others 'on the spot' and make them my friends, even though we will only get to hang out for a few days.
The next day, Sadie told me she and her girlfriend were going to with a promoter to Story at a VIP table. Most guys assume that this is outside of their reality and they could never have access. However, I told her cool. She invited to come. She simply messages the guy and he said, "Sure he can come." Initially, the promoter was going to charge me a minimum fee to get in but later I just started talking to him and Sadie and he said, "Fuck it, it is cool." And I got into the VIP area for free. Now many of you fear that if you are with two girls that someone is going to "steal your girls." However, the opposite is the case. When you go to a place where everyone has girls nobody cares. Meanwhile, if you were street gaming with a lot of the PUA's you'll be sure they'll run to try AMOG(the reality is that a lot of them are low-value guys).
I let Sadie and her friend do their own thing(drinking) and then I started to IG and phone close most of the girls in the venue. Eventually, I run into a cute blond girl. I started grinding on her. I told her. "I'm promoting and hanging out with my friends, you?" She said she was just visiting from Orlando. I started to make out with her and then I told Sadie and her friend to come with the Uber with me to head back to the hotel(this wouldn't be the first time I've done this, I've also done it with French girls..etc). They were down and they helped me out get my girl into a much more social mood. I took my Uber and headed back to the hotel. I fingered my girl and then make out but didn't even up closing, I was tired at the time and the girl had to leave early the next day. I simply said my goodbyes and the girl went back home. I'm not going to lie to you guys and tell you every set I pull I get laid. Moreover, this was my first time doing table game so I was surprised it worked so well, lol.
Conclusion
In general, the clubs don't have your best intention at heart and most coaches out there don't either. I asked a bunch of coaches why don't they teach their students to go straight to the VIP are where it would benefit them and they told, "I don't teach that kind of stuff." While all you guys are so focused on inner game or outer game, all you might need is some ACCESS. You still need some game(logistics and sexualization). This all comes from misunderstanding 'social circle game' and misunderstanding, 'leverage game.' Assuming that you needs months to build a social circle. Also assuming the 'Hero's journey that you need to do thousands of approaches to get good." You just need a mentor who can teach you very clear a couple of steps to start befriending girls, getting wing girls and getting ACCESS.
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