silverliningplease Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
52	I’m getting married next week...	CELEBRATION!!!	silverliningplease	/r/RedPillWives	17/01/21 12:49 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I’m getting married next week... Thank you so much!!	/r/RedPillWives	17/01/21 10:40 PM
1	I’m getting married next week... Oh good, because the I’ve already read it! :)	/r/RedPillWives	17/01/21 10:40 PM
2	I’m getting married next week... Thank you!!! Haha I understand. Patience is key ❤️	/r/RedPillWives	17/01/21 02:22 PM
1	I’m getting married next week... Of course! He’s always been nothing but supportive of anything I’ve wanted to do, no matter how silly.	/r/RedPillWives	17/01/21 02:20 PM
1	I’m getting married next week... Thank you!!	/r/RedPillWives	17/01/21 02:20 PM
2	I’m getting married next week... That’s exactly how I feel! Glad I’m not alone. Thank you :)	/r/RedPillWives	17/01/21 02:19 PM
5	I’m getting married next week... Thank you so much!! I’m so happy 🥰	/r/RedPillWives	17/01/21 12:56 AM
4	How to plan better as a SAHM I know it sounds like my husband is hard on me but ultimately I think he just wants me to be more efficient. No, he's extremely hard on you. This is not how he should be treating you. Is it possible you haven't expressed the overwhelm you feel? You shouldn't be so exhausted and stressed all the time. I would recommend getting a bit vulnerable with him and explaining a little bit of how you're feeling. No "you make me" or "I feel upset when you." Just... "I'm really overwhelmed with everything I …	/r/RedPillWives	08/01/21 08:21 PM
9	How to avoid frustration over lack of any real 'holiday' as a housewife? I think there's this misconception that housewife/SAHM means that you have to be the full-time caretaker 24/7, 365 days a year and do everything around the house except for pay the bills. This isn't the case. You are working full-time while he is working full-time. When there are holidays, weekends, and so on, you are BOTH parents and homeowners. Not just you, not just him. That means talking to your husband and letting him know what you need. It also means setting boundaries for yourself and kn…	/r/RedPillWives	05/01/21 03:48 PM
2	Can y’all tell me your engagement stories while I patiently await for my turn? He’d been implying he might propose on Christmas for awhile, and then we got tipsy a few days before, and after some bedroom fun he rolled over and pulled out a ring. I was completely shocked and cried (a lot), lol! It was unplanned, random, and everything I could’ve wanted. It was pure him which was so much better than something over-the-top just meant to make me happy. I love the man. I want him to be my forever man. I want to follow him everywhere and build a family with him. I want to grow o…	/r/RedPillWives	01/01/21 03:55 PM
12	Is a man manly by himself? It sounds like you're trying to use RPW methodology to manipulate your relationship rather than enhance it. I don't make up problems that don't exist and ask my partner to fix them in an effort to stroke his ego. If I can open the can myself, you bet your ass I'm opening it myself. But when something is causing me a lot of problems, bringing me stress, or just generally overwhelming me, that is when I go to him. If I can't open the can no matter how hard I try, I'm not going to take hours to res…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/20 02:39 PM