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Introduction: The Feminized Men

A man does not seek relationships. He does not ask for a relationship nor he should ever qualify himself for one. A man who seeks a relationship is a weak man, who has lost touch with the masculine, and been feminized in the way he thinks and acts. What he wants is what a woman needs, love, security and commitment, all the things that satisfy the feminine, and yet, every day he wonders why women do not find him attractive and desirable and why he constantly fails in establishing a long term, healthy relationships.

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The Nature Of Men and Women

Being a man, seeking love and validations is not just a turn off, often fueled by desperation, but also a manifestation of the path of life in which he walks that run contrary to his own nature. A man is naturally masculine and a woman is naturally feminine. They are the polar opposite and that's what creates attractions among one and another. Unlike femininity, masculinity does not seek comforts nor commitment. What it seeks is freedom, through making progress, achieving goals and chasing excellence. So to a feminine woman, a man who eagerly pursues relationships is an effeminate man who has no purposes, no missions and no drive in life. He, like the masculine woman, is the unwanted one in a sexual relationship.

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The State of Modern Feminized Men

This is, unfortunately, the case for many modern men today, conditioned to be relationship-focused instead of mission-focused and grow up being taught to live like a woman instead of striving for a life of a man. Never before, we see generations of men who are so obsessed with the idea of love, finding the one and creating the perfect relationship. Never before, we see so many men who put women on pedestals and try to qualify to her for the validations, for the commitment and for the sex. Never before, we see so many men who subscribe to the Disney fairy tales that tell them to do everything and sacrifice anything to be with this one woman that is so-called their soulmates.

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We all know these kinds of guys, the guy who would stagnate his education and purposes to be with the woman, the guy who would spend less time with the brothers to spend more time with that one woman, the guy who would quit gyms, abandon his hobbies and put off his dream to dedicate his entire life to the one and only woman, who is now the centre of his life and his sole reason for wanting to exist. Ironically, these are the same guys who would get left behind by their peers and many times by their own women because they have lost a sense of themselves, of what it means to be masculine and of how it is to live as a desirable man.

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The Harsh Truth For Men

The matter of fact is no woman wants another woman in a relationship. Opposite attracts and similar repeals. Being feminine, you risk killing attractions with a woman whom her nature always want her to be feminine. As a man, you must get in touch with your masculinity and sprinkle it all over your life, to not only remains attractive and desirable to the feminine but to live a happy and satisfying life that is in accordance with your nature. Once you grasp the way of the masculine, you will realize that fulfilment does not come through love, a relationship nor a woman, but it is through purpose, mission and the drive to succeed in life.

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Conclusion: What Does It Means To Be A Masculine Men?

A masculine man does not have time to seek, nor beg nor qualify to a woman. If anything she must qualify to him, she must ask him, she must beg him for his attention, for his love and for his commitment just how her nature wants her to be. It's her job to seek for the relationship while it is his job to decide if she is worthy of it or not. Being a masculine man, your focus should never be fixated on her or the relationship, but on yourself and on building and creating values that are respectable and recognized by society and by others men. She may be the gatekeeper of sex, but you are the gatekeeper of commitment and as you build yourself into a high calibre of man, nobody can dictate your life and freedom but you and you only.

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Embrace your masculinity and let it flow within every thought and action you make in life.